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John P. Strelecky

A Story About the Meaning of Life

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The Why Café by John P. Strelecky is a thought-provoking story following the journey of a man who searches for the meaning of life in a small café. The book offers insights on finding purpose, living in the moment, and embracing change.

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    To live a fulfilled life, we need to find our purpose and go with it.

    Are you one of those people who think their lives are just alright? Sure, your job can be frustrating, but you have close friends and enough money to get by. Sometimes, though, in the pit of your stomach, you feel that something is missing from your life. Why can’t you just be happy with what you have? The answer is simply : because a good life is not automatically a fulfilling one!

    This is one of the first lessons John learns as he waits for his breakfast at The Why Café. On the back of the menu, he finds three questions.

    “Why are you here?” 

    “Do you fear death?” 

    “Are you fulfilled?”

    Here’s the key message: To live a fulfilled life, we need to find our purpose and go with it.

    John asks his waitress Casey about the questions. Casey explains that the first one is all about finding out why we’re here in the first place. What brings us pleasure? How do we want to use our time on Earth? 

    This question is the most important one because the first step to leading a fulfilled life is to determine our purpose. For John – as for many of us – this is a tricky task. So to start him off, Casey tells him about her encounter with a green sea turtle.

    While scuba diving in Hawaii, Casey once tried to follow a green sea turtle out into the open sea. But despite her best efforts, she couldn’t keep up with the animal. Finally, she gave up and just let herself drift in the water – and that’s when she started catching up to the turtle. She realized that the turtle had been doing this the whole time: When a wave came in its direction, the turtle paddled just enough to hold its position. And when the wave flowed back into the ocean, the turtle took advantage of the current and let itself be carried out into the open sea. 

    Many people do the opposite – they paddle against every wave and exhaust themselves without ever making progress. Not following your true purpose in life is a bit like fighting against an invisible current. At some point, you’ll become so exhausted that you won’t have any time or strength left to do what you really want to do. 

    That’s why we should start living our lives like green sea turtles and surf on the current of our true desires. Otherwise, we'll just keep paddling against the waves without ever finding meaning.

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    What is The Why Café about?

    The Why Café (2003) is a semi-autobiographical account of one man’s search for meaning. When protagonist John stumbles upon a little Café in the middle of nowhere, he’s confronted with three existential questions. The other customers guide John on his philosophical journey and help him discover the secrets to living a fulfilled life – teaching us all how to do the same in the process.

    The Why Café Review

    The Why Café (2006) takes readers on a journey of self-discovery through a chance encounter at a café. Here's why this book is worth reading:

    • With its relatable characters and thought-provoking conversations, it offers a unique way of exploring life's big questions.
    • It presents simple yet profound insights about finding purpose and meaning in our lives, leaving readers with a fresh perspective.
    • Through its engaging narrative and practical takeaways, the book encourages readers to reflect on their own lives and make positive changes.

    Who should read The Why Café?

    • Hard workers who can’t seem to catch a break
    • Lost souls searching for meaning
    • Anyone who wants to overcome their fear of death

    About the Author

    John Strelecky is an American author and speaker. He wrote The Why Café during a nine-month sabbatical from his job as a management consultant. The book became a best seller and has since been translated into 42 languages. Strelecky has written a sequel called Return to the Why Café. He also shares his philosophy toward life in seminars around the world. 

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    The main message of The Why Café is that discovering our purpose and finding fulfillment is within our reach.

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    The Why Café is worth reading as it offers thought-provoking insights and encourages self-reflection, making it a valuable read for personal growth.

    Who is the author of The Why Café?

    The author of The Why Café is John P. Strelecky.

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