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Name: The Why Café
Rating: 4.4 (345 reviews)
Author: John P. Strelecky

John P. Strelecky

A Story About the Meaning of Life

4.4 (345 Bewertungen)

18 Min.

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The Why Café by John P. Strelecky is a thought-provoking story following the journey of a man who searches for the meaning of life in a small café. The book offers insights on finding purpose, living in the moment, and embracing change.

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Menschsein Westliche Philosophie Zufriedenheit Inspiration Weisheit Erfülltes Leben

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What’s in it for me? Learn how to live a fulfilled life.

The highway is closed due to an accident, the detour route leads to the middle of nowhere, and, to top it all off, the car has run out of gas. Needless to say, this isn’t how stressed-out management consultant John imagined his vacation.

When John goes looking for a gas station, he stumbles upon a strange little joint called “The Why Café.” It’s not your typical coffee shop, and the menu confronts John with three big existential questions.

Luckily, he gets help from the wise and wonderful regulars at the Café, who share their stories to teach John how to find his purpose in life. These blinks detail the life lessons that John picks up in The Why Café – and explain how they apply to all of us.

Along the way you’ll find out

what we can learn from green sea turtles;
how advertising clouds our vision of life; and
why happy people seem to have magical powers.

To live a fulfilled life, we need to find our purpose and go with it.

Are you one of those people who think their lives are just alright? Sure, your job can be frustrating, but you have close friends and enough money to get by. Sometimes, though, in the pit of your stomach, you feel that something is missing from your life. Why can’t you just be happy with what you have? The answer is simply : because a good life is not automatically a fulfilling one!

This is one of the first lessons John learns as he waits for his breakfast at The Why Café. On the back of the menu, he finds three questions.

“Why are you here?”

“Do you fear death?”

“Are you fulfilled?”

Here’s the key message: To live a fulfilled life, we need to find our purpose and go with it.

John asks his waitress Casey about the questions. Casey explains that the first one is all about finding out why we’re here in the first place. What brings us pleasure? How do we want to use our time on Earth?

This question is the most important one because the first step to leading a fulfilled life is to determine our purpose. For John – as for many of us – this is a tricky task. So to start him off, Casey tells him about her encounter with a green sea turtle.

While scuba diving in Hawaii, Casey once tried to follow a green sea turtle out into the open sea. But despite her best efforts, she couldn’t keep up with the animal. Finally, she gave up and just let herself drift in the water – and that’s when she started catching up to the turtle. She realized that the turtle had been doing this the whole time: When a wave came in its direction, the turtle paddled just enough to hold its position. And when the wave flowed back into the ocean, the turtle took advantage of the current and let itself be carried out into the open sea.

Many people do the opposite – they paddle against every wave and exhaust themselves without ever making progress. Not following your true purpose in life is a bit like fighting against an invisible current. At some point, you’ll become so exhausted that you won’t have any time or strength left to do what you really want to do.

That’s why we should start living our lives like green sea turtles and surf on the current of our true desires. Otherwise, we'll just keep paddling against the waves without ever finding meaning.

Advertising clouds our ideas of happiness and purpose.

If you attentively watch a few minutes of TV ads or flip through the pages of a glossy magazine, you’ll notice something: advertisers are experts at playing to our fears and desires. A face cream becomes a promise of eternal youth, a chocolate bar the emblem of a perfect family life, and a new car a symbol of adventure.

What these ads have in common is that they equate their products with happiness – even if the slogans communicate this message a little more subtly.

A self-determined life isn’t just more fulfilling – it can also alleviate our fear of death.

How would Dad take it if I became a bricklayer instead of an architect? What would Mom think if I became an actress instead of a lawyer? And above all, what would the neighbors say?

It’s not just advertising and consumerism that prevent us from pursuing our true purpose in life. Our social environment, especially our friends and family, also have a hand in it. We all like to think that we make our life decisions independently. But more often than not, they are shaped by the expectations, conventions, and norms of others. That’s why freeing ourselves from what others think about our choices is an important step on the path to a meaningful life.

There are many ways to find your purpose in life.

Whether it’s life coaches, horoscopes, or lunar calendars – people seek advice in the strangest places in order to ascertain their destinies. They hope that others can help explain why they’re here on Earth.

But in truth, everyone needs to answer this question for themselves. There is no one right way to live your life, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution to finding your life’s purpose. However, we can look to people who’ve already found theirs, and try out some of the things that helped give them clarity.

Every person is free to decide whether – and how – to follow their purpose in life.

So you’ve found your purpose in life, and now you’re wondering what to do with that realization. The beautiful – and somewhat unsatisfying – answer is: whatever you want!

A fulfilled life looks different for everyone; it could be writing novels, studying biotechnology, playing soccer, or something else entirely. What seems deadly boring to one person might deliver ultimate satisfaction to another. Some people will only need to make tiny changes in their lives to find and sustain a feeling of purpose, while others might need a grandiose shift. Sometimes, even doing nothing can bring you closer to what you want.

People who’ve found their purposes magically attract happiness.

Have you ever experienced the bliss of things just falling into place? When you go with the flow and do what you enjoy, the world can seem full of happy coincidences. But are those really just coincidences? Or is there some other magical force at work?

When waitress Casey brings this phenomenon to John’s attention, he’s reminded of an acquaintance who, by the looks of it, had found her purpose. She was completely absorbed in her work, and she seemed to have more luck than average. Once, for example, she applied for a job that seemed hopelessly out of reach. But by chance, a former college classmate who knew the company reached out. He put in a good word for her, and she got the job.

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The Why Café (2003) is a semi-autobiographical account of one man’s search for meaning. When protagonist John stumbles upon a little Café in the middle of nowhere, he’s confronted with three existential questions. The other customers guide John on his philosophical journey and help him discover the secrets to living a fulfilled life – teaching us all how to do the same in the process.

Wer The Why Café lesen sollte

Hard workers who can’t seem to catch a break
Lost souls searching for meaning
Anyone who wants to overcome their fear of death

Über den Autor

John Strelecky is an American author and speaker. He wrote The Why Café during a nine-month sabbatical from his job as a management consultant. The book became a best seller and has since been translated into 42 languages. Strelecky has written a sequel called Return to the Why Café. He also shares his philosophy toward life in seminars around the world.

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