Natalie Lue is an expert on the breakup mistakes to avoid. Why? Because she’s made more than her fair share herself. But in 2005, tired of heartbreak, she challenged herself to break bad relationship habits and reclaim her sense of self. Now, she blogs and podcasts about relationships and breakups through her hugely popular Baggage Reclaim brand.
Natalie Lue Books
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The No Contact Rule
Natalie Lue
A guide to surviving your breakup with your self-respect in tow
4.4 (125 ratings)
Listen to the Intro00:00What's The No Contact Rule about?
The No Contact Rule is the tough-talking guide you need if you’re feeling battered by a breakup, can’t seem to let go of your ex, or are stuck in an on-again off-again relationship. Here you’ll find tips and tricks on how to find emotional distance, refocus on yourself, and finally attain closure.
Who should read The No Contact Rule?
- Anyone who’s just been dumped;
- Anyone who’s just dumped someone;
- Everyone who just can’t seem to stop texting their ex.
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The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship
Natalie Lue
How to have happier relationships and stop being drawn to unavailable men
4.3 (71 ratings)
Listen to the Intro00:00What's The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship about?
The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship (2012) is aimed at women who expect too much from unavailable, unreliable men, and want to change their ways. By examining the reasons that women delude themselves about men, as well as the specific lies they believe, it ultimately points the way toward happier relationships and more realistic dreams.
Who should read The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship?
- Women tired of kidding themselves about undeserving men
- Amateur agony aunts who love giving relationship advice
- Unreliable men willing to mend their ways
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Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl
Natalie Lue
The Definitive Guide to Understanding Emotionally Unavailable Men and the Women that Love Them
4.5 (155 ratings)
Listen to the Intro00:00What's Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl about?
Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl (2008) provides a lifeline for anyone who keeps getting messed around by emotionally unavailable partners. With searing personal insights, tough love, and a large dose of humor, Mr Unavailable is an essential guide to breaking destructive relationship patterns and finding love.
Who should read Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl?
- Anyone who feels chronically unlucky in love but can’t seem to break the cycle
- Women who want to get to know themselves better and develop their self-esteem
- Men recovering from bad relationships who want to avoid becoming “Mr. Unavailable”
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The Joy of Saying No
Natalie Lue
A Simple Plan to Stop People-Pleasing, Reclaim Your Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want
4.1 (187 ratings)
Listen to the Intro00:00What's The Joy of Saying No about?
The Joy of Saying No (2022) is a practical guide for people pleasers. It explains what people pleasing is, why it impacts well-being, the different ways it manifests in behaviors, and how it can be overcome, so that people can live more authentically.
Who should read The Joy of Saying No?
- Life-long people pleasers
- Individuals who struggle to say no or set healthy boundaries
- People aged 20 to 80, who were raised in the Age of Obedience