12 Things Top Authors Wish They’d Learned In School But Never Did
One of the boons of being an adult is that you can do things your way. Eat what you want, stay up late, wear what you want, and choose to focus your free time learning just what you want. Complemented by readily accessible online courses, webinars, YouTube lecture series and much more, autonomous learning experiences reveal much about both our underlying desires and our educational systems’ underlying deficiencies.
So, what do we choose to learn about when the choice is solely ours? With this question in mind, we asked a handful of the world’s top bestselling authors one simple question: What do you wish you’d learned at school, but never did? Following, their answers and a complementary reading list we designed to match up with the skills they wish they’d learned.
1. Denise Lee Yohn – How To Be A Good Leader
@blinkist so much i wish i’d learned..one immediate thought: how to lead people
— Denise Lee Yohn (@deniseleeyohn) August 31, 2016
Teacher! Leave those kids alone! In traditional education systems, there is a lot of emphasis on following, obeying, and conforming to the crowd. It’s no surprise that two powerful personalities — Virtual Mentor Michael Hyatt and What Great Brands Do author Denise Lee Yohn — are both hankering for more emphasis on leadership in schools. Instill in children ideas about what makes a good leader and what leadership looks like at a young age, and they’ll grow up with a better foundation for how to give and receive leadership, encouragement, and coaching. When thinking about learning better leadership skills, a great starting point is Daniel Pink’s book Drive where he discusses the ins and outs of motivation and how to foster a growth mindset.
2. Ann Handley – How To Be Confident
@blinkist Confidence. Also, I never did get the hang of advanced algebra.
— Ann Handley (@annhandley) August 31, 2016
A fierce wordsmith and brand marketing maven, it’s hard to believe that Ann Handley has ever suffered with confidence levels, which makes it even more important that she spoke up! We could all use a little shoring up sometimes. If you’d like to boost your confidence when writing, check out Handley’s book Everybody Writes. For more on confidence in general, check out Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff… And It’s All Small Stuff by Richard Carlson; a must-read for anyone who wants to improve their confidence and relationships with others.
3. Tim Sanders – How To Speak Another Language
— Tim Sanders (@sanderssays) August 31, 2016
Speaking different languages gives you new ways to understand the world. Love Is The Killer App author Tim Sanders wished he had learned Spanish in school, while crime writer Val McDermid opted for German. For tips on how to learn any language quickly and never forget it, check out Fluent Forever by polyglot Gabriel Wyner. A fan of rapid language learning, he nailed German in 14 weeks and perfected his French in 5 months. Ja, oui, sí — sign us up.
4. Amanda Palmer & Taylor Pearson – How To Be Compassionate
how to be compassionate with myself. https://t.co/QWaBRdioJO
— Amanda Palmer (@amandapalmer) August 31, 2016
@blinkist Compassion. For myself and others.
— Taylor Pearson (@TaylorPearsonMe) August 31, 2016
The quest for compassion was brought up by the inimitable Amanda Palmer and End of Jobs author Taylor Pearson but it’s an idea that resonates with all of us. To understand how you can cultivate compassion in your life, check out Twelve Steps To a Compassionate Life by Karen Armstrong. A former nun, Armstrong set up the Charter for Compassion, which has been signed by hundreds of thousands of people worldwide. Armstrong’s book is a must-read for everyone looking to bring a touch of consideration and tolerance to their day-to-day lives.
6. Philippa Perry – How To Understand Individual Challenges
@blinkist that I had dyslexia and wasn’t therefore as lazy and stupid as teachers were certain, I was.
— Philippa_Perry (@Philippa_Perry) August 31, 2016
British psychotherapist Philippa Perry brought a personal bent to the conversation with her frank admission of how, growing up, she was made to feel inadequate by a limited education system that was ill-equipped to identify and deal with her dyslexia. Perry’s book How To Stay Sane focuses on how to use stories to shape the way we view the world and suggests 30-minute exercises to help us to stay sane when the world seems to be shifting violently beneath us. For practical advice on how to address dyslexia in children with the power of music, check out The Brain’s Way of Healing by Norman Doidge.
5. Adam Alter – How To Code
@blinkist Coding, a language, and more math!
— Adam Alter (@adamleealter) August 31, 2016
With a new digital economy comes a desire for new skills, and learning how to code is top of this list. Drunk Tank Pink author Adam Alter wishes he had been exposed to coding at an early age. What does this shifting emphasis mean for the future of the economy? Jaron Lanier’s Who Owns The Future? helps put it all in focus.
7. Ben Greenfield – How To Meditate
— Ben Greenfield (@bengreenfield) August 29, 2016
Physical and intellectual growth are often considered the points of emphasis in a child’s education, however mental and emotional development is just as important. This was high on fitness and health guru Ben Greenfield‘s list. Don’t just take our word for it; for an insight into the power of meditation from the point of view of a neuropsychologist, check out the blinks to Buddha’s Brain by Berkeley professor Dr. Rick Hanson. This fascinating book extols the merits of meditation and backs it with neuroscience.
8. James Wallman – How To Be A Rock Star
@blinkist guitar – I’d be a rock star 🤘
— James Wallman (@jameswallman) August 31, 2016
Turns out, top authors want to be rock stars, too. James Wallman, author of Stuffocation, can get a glimpse into the realities of the music industry in How Music Works by David Byrne of Talking Heads fame.
9. Brigid Schulte – How Important it is to Play
@blinkist where do I start? I wish I’d learned that play – trial and error – discovery is really the way we learn as humans
— Brigid Schulte (@BrigidSchulte) September 1, 2016
Brigid Schulte, author of Overwhelmed, a trailblazer when it comes to envisioning alternative ways to cope with stress, tweeted about the importance of play as a discovery tool. Play is one of the most powerful means of discovery we have and it’s a baked-in human urge, to boot. It encourages innovation and experimentation, plus, it eliminates fear. Schulte’s emphasis on play also lines up with a chapter in Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner’s Think Like A Freak that uses to power of play and free-thinking to explain why children are so much better at unraveling magic tricks than adults.
10. Richard Koch – How To Play Tennis (The 80/20 Way)
How to play tennis properly! https://t.co/t7QEOB33UK
— Richard Koch (@RichardKoch8020) August 31, 2016
Tennis is a skill that The 80/20 Principle author Richard Koch wished he’d learned at school. This is pretty specific, but it does jive with the idea that regular physical exercise is key for a healthy, productive mind. As a follow-up question, we asked whether the 80/20 principle can be applied to tennis and Koch replied:
Definitely. Only a few rules matter. Rest is practice. https://t.co/955aP5hOmc
— Richard Koch (@RichardKoch8020) September 1, 2016
Game. Set. Match.
11. David Burkus – How To Actually Use Math In The Real World
@blinkist Statistics. It wasn’t until grad school that anyone really covered it well.
Boring answer I know…but huge implications.
— davidburkus (@davidburkus) August 27, 2016
David Burkus, author of The Myths of Creativity, operates in the world of creative expression, innovation, and entrepreneurship. At first glance, his learning wishlist may sound less than enthralling, but understanding statistics can help us to run experiments that illuminate the workings of the world around us and our own innerworkings, too. What’s more, there is actually great beauty in mathematics as The Magic of Math shows. See? Your answer is not so boring after all, Burkus!
12. Austin Kleon – How To Embrace The World As Your Classroom
That most of the important things I would learn would be learned outside of school. https://t.co/unrfBuSnhL
— Austin Kleon (@austinkleon) August 31, 2016
Austin Kleon, author of Steal Like An Artist needed just one small tweet to make a grand point: many of life’s most valuable lessons are ones we’ll only learn outside of classroom walls. A book with a supporting philosophy is Kio Stark’s Don’t Go Back to School. Stark shows how degrees are not the be-all, end-all for a successful life, presenting a strong case for independent learning along with principles you can use immediately to be successful with what you’re working on outside of the classroom.
What do you wish you’d learned in school? What lessons do you wish you’d come to earlier in life? Tweet us and let us know with the hashtag #AlwaysLearning, and we’ll find the right book for you, too!