Dr. Ramani Durvasula (“Don’t You Know Who I Am?”) is an American psychologist specializing in the effects of narcissistic and antagonistic personality types on relationships, health, and societies. Dr. Ramani is currently Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, and the founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting.
Ramani Durvasula Books
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Should I Stay Or Should I Go
Ramani Durvasula
Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist
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Listen to the Intro00:00What's Should I Stay Or Should I Go about?
Should I Stay Or Should I Go (2015) is a comprehensive survival guide for those in a relationship with a narcissist. Dr. Ramani breaks down what narcissism is, highlights the red flags to look out for, and offers two concrete roadmaps – one for deciding to stay, and one for deciding to go.
Who should read Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
- Anyone not feeling seen, heard, or respected by a partner
- People dealing with a narcissistic parent, friend, or colleague
- Those struggling to decide whether they should stay in or leave a relationship
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What's It's Not You about?
It’s Not You (2024) delves into the complexities of narcissistic personality traits and their devastating effects on personal and professional relationships. With a compassionate and pragmatic approach, it offers strategies and insights to help navigate these challenging dynamics.
Who should read It's Not You?
- Those who have experienced, or are currently in, relationships with narcissistic partners, family members, friends, or colleagues
- Human resource professionals and managers who want to understand narcissistic behavior in the workplace better
- Anyone who is navigating complex relationships with narcissistic personalities they can’t walk away from
