Why Is Everyone Talking About The Korean Superpower Nunchi?
Want to turn strangers into fast friends? Expand your network and make colleagues love you? Build trust and rapport with just about anyone? You need the Korean art of Nunchi.
Nunchi literally translates to “eye measure,” and it involves using nothing but your eyes to assess a social situation and read a room. By observing more, you’ll pick up on the subtle clues that tell you what people are really thinking and feeling.
If it sounds like a superpower, that’s because it is. Korean-American author Euny Hong dives into the concept, and how you can use it at work and in your personal life, in The Power of Nunchi.
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The Power of Nunchi
The Power of Nunchi
- 22 min reading time
- audio version available
Want a taster of what you can expect to see on the app? Here are four lessons from the explainer to get you started.
Lesson 1: Read the Room, Not The Person
One key part of nunchi is reading the entire room you’re in, instead of focusing on one person in particular. That includes being aware of how everyone in the room is behaving and interacting with each other, as well as noticing the overall atmosphere of a room, or boonwigi, as it’s known in Korea.
Next time you’re at a party or in a large meeting, see if you can pick up on the room’s overall mood, and how it can change depending on who walks in and how well people are getting on. This will help you adapt your own behavior to match.
Lesson 2: Try the Practice of Stilling
Stilling is an important part of nunchi that involves slowing down, being quiet, and paying attention to everything around you, almost like a form of mindfulness.
For example, before you enter a room, clear your mind and bring yourself into the present. Go into the room without any preconceptions or mental distractions.
This will not only help you read the room — and the people in it — more accurately, it’ll ensure you start each interaction you have with a clear mind, giving you a better chance at connecting and striking up a friendship.
Lesson 3: Never Pass Up a Good Opportunity to Be Quiet
When you’re focusing on reading the room and stilling your mind, you may naturally become quieter. According to the art of nunchi, this is a good thing.
Being quiet will allow you to watch how others interact, listen to what they’re really saying to better respond to them, and pick up on nonverbal cues that are easily missed when you’re busy being loud and assertive.
Korean kids are even taught not to ask questions during class. Chances are, by being quiet and actively listening, their question will be answered soon enough. And if it isn’t, they can ask once the lesson is over and there’s no longer a risk of distracting other students by interrupting the teacher.
Lesson 4: Figure Out What Your Boss Really Needs to Excel at Work
To get a promotion at work, you need to ace all your projects and make your boss happy. But that’s easier said than done. One way nunchi can help you in your work life is by reminding you to observe.
Instead of getting swept up in your own to-do list, observe your boss and work out what their biggest problem is. Then, present yourself as the solution.
This could be handling a tricky account they no longer have time for or taking on admin responsibilities they don’t enjoy.
By practicing the art of nunchi, you’ll not only be working smarter, not harder, on the tasks that matter, you’ll be making yourself practically irreplaceable in your boss’ eyes.
Clearly, nunchi has the power to transform how you view the world, and how you interact with the people in it. Want more nunchi wisdom? Blinkist’s explainer of The Power of Nunchi is now available for free, so you can learn more about the Korean superpower in just 15 minutes. Here’s how the app works.
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