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The main message of Hannibal and Me is to learn from history's greats and overcome challenges in our own lives.

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Andreas Kluth is the author of Hannibal and Me.

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Name: Hannibal and Me
Rating: 3.8 (33 reviews)
Author: Andreas Kluth

Andreas Kluth

What History’s Greatest Military Strategist Can Teach Us About Success and Failure

3.8 (33 ratings)

16 mins

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In 'Hannibal and Me' by Andreas Kluth we explore how Hannibal's story of ambition, success, and ultimate failure can help us find courage and wisdom in our own lives. A fascinating mix of history, biography, and self-help.

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What’s in it for me? Discover yourself through a brilliant ancient field commander.

What can we learn from the life of Hannibal, the perhaps greatest military commander in history? Hannibal and Me makes the case that the brilliant strategist, who won over many allies of Rome, can teach us about everything from parental influence and goal-setting to dealing with both crisis and potentially blinding successes.

In these blinks you’ll learn how Hannibal’s personal development and warfare tactics can be transferred to our modern life, since, ultimately, we all face similar challenges.

You’ll also discover

how choosing the right setting can make your weakness irrelevant;
that Hannibal’s victories made him lose sight of the big picture: capturing Rome; and
why a midlife crisis shouldn’t necessarily be a crisis.

Your parents have a great influence on you – whether you emulate them, yearn for their affection or rebel against them.

Do you admire your parents’ accomplishments, or would you want to live a completely different life? No matter how you answer, your life is ultimately influenced by your parents.

Some wish to emulate their parents, seeing them as role models. If your parents are successful in a way you admire, it’s likely that you’ll feel pressure to follow suit.

Hannibal’s father, for example, was a highly regarded Carthaginian general. For Hannibal, it was clear even at an early age that he should emulate – if not exceed – his father’s valor. Despite all his father’s successes, he was unable to defeat the Roman army in the first Punic War, and so Hannibal made it his life’s mission to exceed his father’s reputation by conquering Rome.

Yet, even if your parents were absent in your life, it’s still common to search instead for the idea of a parent. Unfortunately, many people don’t know their parents – they may be orphans or might even be abandoned by their parents. This doesn’t mean, however, that their parents don’t influence them.

For instance, a child might start a search for their missing parent, often knowing only their name or having just a picture to go by. The child might satisfy her expectations through this quest to find her parent, which would help in forming a stable identity, or maybe the search will continue forever, preventing the child from ever settling down. But even this restlessness is a form of parental influence.

On the other hand, children who receive too much attention from their parents tend to rebel against them. If a child becomes overwhelmed by their parents’ presence, then he or she will typically rebel, perhaps by seeking out rebellious relationships or by dressing provocatively.

But even in her rebellion, the child is still influenced by the parents: her actions are a response to those of her parents, without which the rebellion would have no basis.

Some people – heroes on a quest – know their ultimate goal early in life and some – wanderers – will find their determination later.

Do you know your purpose in life? Congratulations! That means you’ve got a head start on making it come true. But don’t worry if you don’t. A later search for your life’s purpose, as well, can open you to amazing possibilities.

For many, the quest to fulfill their life’s purpose is lifelong. It starts, however, by forming a tentative identity based on parents’ influence. Eventually, they start looking for their own individual purpose.

You can defeat your opponents by making your weaknesses irrelevant and undermining their strengths.

Sometimes people stand between you and your goals. And sometimes these rivals will be stronger than you. By looking at Hannibal’s life, however, we can gain insight into how we can defeat even superior enemies.

First, you must make your own weaknesses irrelevant by carefully choosing the right settings for your confrontations.

The big picture is more important than single victory.

What is the best way to measure your success in life? Is it your career? Your bank account? Your family life? You might be successful in any one of these categories, but a truly successful life is one that is successful in terms of the “big picture.”

Unfortunately, singular successes make it easy to lose sight of the big picture, despite being far more important.

Success brings the dangers of hubris, distraction and captivity.

Victory can sometimes be just as destabilizing as disaster. It can distract, restrict and even blind you if you aren’t careful. Hubris can turn your greatest success into your downfall.

With success or power often comes arrogance, overconfidence, hubris. In fact, research shows that the feeling of power that comes with success can lead people to believe that they’re invincible!

Be careful with enviers as they can harm you when you least expect it.

We all feel envy, and it’s a terrible feeling. Envy can even be ruinous – not just for us, but also for the people around us. This is especially true in politics, where envy has brought down many great people over the years.

Great successes always brings enviers into the arena. There are always people who are more successful in life than others, and while many accept this gracefully, others don’t.

The only way to overcome grief is to go through the entire grief cycle.

Have you ever lost a loved one? If you have, then you know that while grief is important, it’s also important to move on.

People typically grieve very similarly, following a pattern called the grief cycle. It consists of denial, anger, bargaining, depression and finally acceptance of their loss.

To succeed in your midlife transition, you have to leave behind the person of your youth.

At some point, we all go through a midlife crisis. It is how we handle this crisis that determines whether we’ll be happy in our old age.

Many people undergo a major life transition in their forties. According to psychologist Carl Jung, all stages of life are important in our personal development, but the years around age forty are especially crucial to our fulfillment.

The ultimate goal is self-actualization, and history leaves us wondering if Hannibal achieved it.

What do president Abraham Lincoln and physicist Albert Einstein have in common? According to American psychologist Abraham Maslow, they both achieved the greatest success in life: self-actualization, the fulfillment of our human potential.

For Maslow, self-actualization describes the ultimate success in life. According to him, everyone has something at which they excel, and that something should be one’s profession.

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What is Hannibal and Me about?

Hannibal and Me details the famous Carthaginian general Hannibal’s quest to conquer Rome. The author Andreas Kluth draws from Hannibal’s biography valuable lessons on strategy, coping and finding the meaning of life.

Hannibal and Me Review

Hannibal and Me (2011) explores history's greatest leaders and the lessons we can learn from them. Here's why this book is a worthwhile read:

By intertwining personal reflection, historical analysis, and biographical narratives, it offers a unique perspective on leadership and personal growth.
The book's focus on overcoming adversity, embracing failure, and finding resilience in the face of challenges makes it both enlightening and empowering.
With its thought-provoking insights and inspiring anecdotes, it captivates readers' attention, ensuring a captivating journey through history and self-discovery.

Best quote from Hannibal and Me

To understand your life, you have to begin with your parents.

—Andreas Kluth

Who should read Hannibal and Me?

Anyone who wants to improve their life
Anyone interested in Roman and Carthaginian history
Military history buffs

About the Author

Kluth is a German-American journalist and author, who worked at various posts with the magazine The Economist since 1997.

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